STRESS PHOBIAS
Stress phobics are the opposite of stress seekers. A phobia is an irrational fear, and stress phobics have a tremendous fear of confrontations—indeed, of life itself.
Stress phobics suffer in silence rather than assert themselves. They turn their anger and frustration inward. This is manifested clinically as depression. Stress phobics see the world as an unfriendly, unhappy and frightening place. These depressed stress phobics have strong feelings of hopelessness and helplessness. Nothing seems worthwhile.
The negative thoughts in their heads are turned into hormones that actually attack and suppress their immune system, making them more susceptible to disease. Stress phobics seem to have more arthritis and cancer than do stress seekers or stress handlers.
Are You a Stress Phobic?
Are you a stress phobic? Check off the items that apply to you. Do you . . .
( ) Have difficulty expressing your feelings?
( ) Feel helpless to change your personal or work situation?
( ) Accept things even if you know you could improve them?
( ) Wish that once, just once, they would listen to you?
( ) Have vague feelings of dissatisfaction?
( ) Put up with things because you’re afraid they’ll get worse
if you try to change them?
( ) Often wonder if suicide might not be a good way to end
your problems?
( ) Figure you’re never going to amount to much?
( ) Have trouble picturing yourself as a successful person?
( ) Wonder if anyone would notice if you died?
( ) Wonder why you were ever born?
If you checked more than two items, you may be a stress phobic. Your mind is stuffed with “impossible” and “I can’t” and “why bother” and “no one cares.” These thoughts are turned into chemicals that handcuff your “doctor within” by suppressing your immune system. Your negative thoughts actually make you more vulnerable to disease. And diseased you will be unless you learn how to keep your mind clear of immune-suppressive thoughts.
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